Rachelle Weger, MA, LPC, Certified Clinical Partner Specialist & Certified Clinical Empathy Specialist
First and foremost, I want to honor the vulnerable and courageous decision you have made to begin counseling. Some of the values I hold dear and bring into the therapeutic relationship are authenticity, empathy, empowerment, and a willingness to lean into the hard work of change. My hope is that together, we can ease your burdens and celebrate your growth.
While I am capable of helping clients with various mental health concerns, I have specialized training to work with individuals and relationships impacted by sex addiction, including compulsive pornography use or other sexual acting out behaviors. I utilize a trauma-informed, partner-sensitive approach to this work.
I also support couples in early recovery after the discovery of sexual addiction or affairs. This “relational CPR” helps an individual who has been unfaithful provide the empathy and support needed to their partner in the immediate aftermath. If this type of trauma has left you or your relationship shaken and you are unsure of how to move forward, it would be an honor to join you in this healing journey. As someone who has experienced betrayal trauma in my own life, I can provide a unique understanding and a safe space to help you recover.
I am passionate about helping trauma survivors of all kinds rebuild their lives and sense of self through coping skills, boundaries and empowered choice. I am also skilled in working with survivors of intimate partner violence, including issues such as gaslighting, coercive control, and narcissistic abuse.
Although it may not have always felt like it, healing is possible and within your reach! I strive to empower my clients, and I believe that you have the ability to feel whole again. I utilize trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, Feminist Theory, and mindfulness-based approaches.
Clinical Areas of Interest
women’s issues
betrayal trauma / partners of sex addicts
infidelity / early couples recovery
assertiveness skills
intimate partner abuse
PTSD
group therapy
Session Rates
Individual session rates are $140 for a 50-55 minute appointment. Couples counseling session rates are $150 for a 50-55 minute appointment. Please let me know if you’re interested in learning more about using your out-of-network insurance benefits.
Professional Experiences
I have a Master degree in Professional Counseling from Lindenwood University. I am a Certified Clinical Partner Specialist through the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) as well as a Certified Clinical Empathy Specialist. I have specialized training in both the Multi-Dimensional Partner Trauma Model and Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model. In order to provide my clients with the best possible clinical care, I have also been trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy by The EMDR Institute.
Take Your Next Step
To contact me directly, please email rachelle@cozychaircounseling.com or text/call 636.344.8401.
Therapy Groups,
Now Enrolling!
Betrayal Trauma Empowerment Group
This trauma-informed group for betrayed partners will help you move through the 3 stages of betrayal trauma towards post-traumatic growth. It will help you reconnect with yourself and find safety and stabilization, process the grief, anger and distress associated with emotional and sexual betrayal, and begin to look towards your vision for the future.
Betrayal Trauma Support Group
This trauma-informed group is for female betrayed partners who have been through the 12-week Empowerment Group and are seeking maintenance and continued support.
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Men’s Group
This psychoeducational group is for men who are looking to rebuild their relationship after betrayal or infidelity.
Therapy Group Testimonials
““I was so very pleased how our group bonded. It was almost like we had all met before and we were meeting to share our experiences, thoughts, and feelings. While I realize every group is different and the dynamics are different and bonding may not happen as quickly, I think the material covered helps with getting people to share. I also appreciated - especially for someone who might be more introverted - that there was no pressure (at least I never felt there was) to share your story or how much detail you might want to go into or not. Our group sessions were like friends getting together to listen to each other and share with each other what we were or had gone through. I am so happy I did this group therapy. We all really cared about each other and you could tell. We were all so very supportive of each other.””
““I was seeking a group for support and this was offered at a perfect time in my life. I highly recommend to all seeking to heal from betrayal trauma in a supportive, loving setting.”
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““Rachelle’s “Unleashing Your Power” women’s group was truly a transformative journey of healing.””
““Rachelle was not only knowledgeable but also genuinely compassionate. She guided us through the complexities of our feelings, and her expertise made it clear that we were in capable hands. The group dynamic was something special; sharing our experiences with others who understood our pain fostered a sense of solidarity. We learned to listen and support one another, creating bonds that I believe will extended beyond the group sessions.” ”
““I particularly appreciated the focus on self-care, rebuilding self-esteem and setting personal boundaries. By the end of the program, I felt a newfound sense of strength and resilience I didn’t know existed inside of me. The tools and techniques I acquired have been invaluable in my healing process, allowing me to approach life with a sense of hope and empowerment.” ”
““Overall, this group therapy experience has been a vital step in my healing journey. I highly recommend it to any woman seeking to navigate the complexities of betrayal trauma. It has not only helped me process my own experiences but also reminded me of the power of community and shared healing. Thank you to Rachelle and everyone involved for creating such a supportive and empowering atmosphere!””